Sex and swinger clubs in Denmark: a Scandinavian lifestyle

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Scandinavians are renowned for being always a few steps ahead: their liberal and progressive mentality is reflected in many fields, from technological innovation to urban planning and environmental policy, to name but a few. For many their society is an example to follow. When it comes to sex clubs, nude beaches and other naughty things, they set the bar high. This is certainly true for the Danes.

In Denmark alone there are countless of clothing-optional beaches scattered all over their beautiful sandy coast.

Backed by protective sand dunes, the west coast of Jutland is especially known as a naturist paradise. Although it seems that the topless among Danish women is in decline, there is surely no shortage of Danes happily enjoying the outdoor lifestyle in their Adamitic outfit.

My personal discovery of wonderful Denmark started when I was 21. I moved to Copenhagen as an exchange student and ended up living the Danish way for a whole year. What a paradise! Coming from southern Europe, where kinky activities and libertine attitude were a little bit frown upon, I was literally amazed. I still remember my very first university campus party, only a few days after I landed. As I was checking the drinks offer, I noticed that next to the regular tequila shot there was also something called “body tequila” which cost three times more. In what turned out to be a very naive moment, I asked the drop-gorgeous blondie at the bar what the difference was and if the triple price was worth it. She smiled at the innocent-looking creature, and called her barista colleague, another gorgeous-looking girl. She approached the bar and poured me a plain tequila shot. “Drink it. This is your 10 kr tequila.” 

Then she pulled out a perfectly shaped breast, sprinkled it with lemon drops and salt grains, while  the other girl poured the tequila on it and sipped as it was trickling down, sucking nicely the nipple at the end. 

Jeezzzz! That was the 30 kr tequila? Give me four, please!

From then on, it was a spiral of new and exciting experiences, first with Danish girls at the university and later on also in some clubs. I was curious to go deep into my exploration, so I made a profile on a famous Danish swinger website and it didn’t take long to start the first naughty friendships. Soon I met a woman, older than me, a professional athlete then in her thirties.. We met at her place the first time, after which  we moved to one of the swinger clubs in Copenhagen. Curiously, for both of us it was the first time in such a club, so we both very pretty vanilla. Not for long, though.

At that time there were about eight clubs in Denmark. There used to be more but then the 2008 financial crisis halved the number. Most of them followed a similar pattern: they were placed in residential areas, typically in large apartments with lots of different rooms, dimmed lights and red and black paint on the wall. Here and there erotic paintings or B&W photography hanging in the hallway and some screens with porn movies of dubious quality probably played from a VHS. The fancier ones had DVDs. 

But what was going on in the rooms, that was remarkable.

The entrance fee for a couple was usually very small, in the order of 100 or 200 kr on the weekends and even free if you were going mid-week during the afternoon. Yes, Many Danes are up for kinky stuff anytime, anyday. Mid morning on Tuesday… “office gang bang theme”, Thursday afternoon “darkroom nympho fantasy”, and so on. I was literally in heaven. I met with that woman a few times and then I went also a few times alone, to see how it’s like when you visit a sex club as a single guy. To my surprise (maybe because I was very young and not too bad looking) many couples were very welcoming. And some single women too. 

Later I learned that in other countries finding a single girl in such a club is virtually unimaginable. But not in Denmark. Single girls often join the parties, sometimes with another girlfriend, sometimes just alone and they seemed like they really enjoyed it. 

One of my favourite memories is a girl in her late twenties, busy on a double activity with two well equipped studs. I spied through the glory hole a bit, then she saw me and smiled with her her tongue out. True, her mouth was not busy, yet. The rest is history, and I let you imagine how the event evolved.

Fast forward ten years, and I found myself living in Denmark again. Time to check out some clubs again, this time with a girlfriend. I could notice that the scene stepped up a few levels (now some of the clubs advertise their parties on Joyclub as well). The online community was huge – apparently millions of profiles, in a country with 5,7 million people – with regular swinger meet-ups and even national newspapers writing pieces on new clubs opening or special events happening.

Incredible. Denmark was surprising me again.

We tried a bit of everything, from private meetings with other couples in our region to club visits, including erotic cinemas. Definitely a variegated playground for such a small country.

So, which are our favourite swinger clubs in Denmark?

One of the most active venue at the time was Tucan, located in southern Jutland, with a loyal crowd coming from all the corners of the country and even from abroad. Tucan arranges youngster parties a few times a year – a healthy trend adopted by several other clubs in Europe as well. In central Jutland swingers seem to visit Joys, while the island of Fyn offers Afrodite. Aalborg in northern Jutland used to have a full club as well but now there is only an erotic cinema with some rooms, Club Eclaire. Greater Copenhagen offers of course the biggest choice, with Swingland, City Swingers, Adam og Eva (recently closed) and Swinger Garden throwing regular parties for couples, single girls and single guys.

If you aren’t planning to visit Denmark, check our listings for some ideas for other countries or our blog about Doing it the French way or The lifestyle in Italy: erotic spas (more coming!).

Whichever corner of Europe you choose, there is surely a place where you can let your wild side go free!

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Comments

  • Mike
    13/07/2020 at 07:47

    Hello there!
    Nice description great page 🙂
    I am in Copenhagen and will stay for some time 🙂 I am a single BBC and looking for some fun 🙂
    Do you know when the clubs will reopen? or some couples / woman looking for some good time?

    Cheers,

    Mike aka blackselection

    • Arianna & Teseo
      16/07/2020 at 19:22

      Hello Mike!

      The clubs in Denmark are reopening this week… At least some of them. Check on the individual websites that you find linked in our blog post. And maybe you should also give them a call to be sure if the website it updated or not, and to check whether they require some sort of reservation in this period.

  • Arianna & Teseo
    19/05/2019 at 23:31

    Hello Devin, where exactly will you be? Copenhagen or also in other cities? One of our favourite club there is Tucan, they have interesting events inthe weekend 7-8 and also 14-15 June. Check their calendar here: https://tucanclub.dk/calendar/
    In Copenhagen City Swingers (1 and 2, two locations) are good clubs too, but they haven’t published the programme for June.

    • Shain
      15/03/2020 at 15:02

      Hi I am in Copenhagen now looking for a swingers club for tonight any ideas

      • Arianna & Teseo
        31/03/2020 at 11:58

        Hello, in many countries in Europe all clubs (including of course also swinger clubs) are closed due to Covid-19 preventive measures. As far as we know Denmark is among those countries. It will probably take some time before it will be possible to attend events to swinger clubs.

      • John
        16/07/2020 at 11:35

        We are a couple looking for sex if you are interested reply here

        • Andy Woodstock
          23/08/2020 at 16:53

          Hi,
          I’m visiting Denmark next week and looking to meet up with a couple for sex.

          I’m staying in Billund (Lego), is this far from you?

          Andy x

  • Devin
    19/05/2019 at 08:37

    Hi, I want to know about private swinger parties or events happening in the month of June 2019, I’ll be visiting Denmark in the second week, also kindly recommend the best swinger clubs to visit…

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